Terms of Use

Effective Date: 22 May, 2025

Welcome to H8M8, the dating platform that flips the script on traditional matchmaking by connecting people through what they dislike, not just what they like. Before you use our app, please read these Terms of Use carefully.

By accessing or using H8M8, you agree to these Terms, our Privacy Policy, and any additional terms disclosed to you. If you do not agree, do not use the service.


1. Purpose and Philosophy

H8M8 is not your average dating app. Our mission is to help users create deeper, more honest connections by encouraging conversations around personal dislikes, deal breakers, and boundaries—the things that often lead to misunderstandings in relationships. We believe that by being upfront about what you won’t tolerate, you can build trust, respect, and compatibility from the very first interaction.

H8M8 is designed to:

  1. Foster meaningful matches through shared values around dislikes (H8s).
  2. Empower users to define and communicate boundaries.
  3. Prevent disrespect and misunderstanding by surfacing "end-game" issues early.
  4. Promote video-based self-expression, honest conversations, and informed connections.

2. Eligibility

To use H8M8, you must:

  1. Be at least 16 years old.
  2. Be legally eligible to enter into this agreement.
  3. Not be prohibited from using digital dating platforms under any applicable laws.


3.Third Party Integration: SMS Verification via Twilio

As part of the account registration process, we use SMS messages to verify your phone number. These messages are sent through our third-party provider, Twilio. By registering for an account with your phone number, you consent to receiving SMS messages solely for authentication and security purposes (e.g., verification codes). Standard messaging rates may apply. Your phone number will only be used for this purpose and will be handled in accordance with our Privacy Policy.


4. User Responsibilities

You agree to:

  1. Use H8M8 only for lawful, respectful, and honest interactions.
  2. Accurately represent yourself in your profile and content.
  3. Respect others’ stated dislikes, boundaries, and values.
  4. Avoid content that is abusive, threatening, sexually explicit, discriminatory, or otherwise harmful.
  5. Report any behavior that violates our community guidelines.


You understand that this app is a "values-first" platform: connection begins by exploring dislikes to build trust—not by faking compatibility.


5. Account and Content

You are responsible for:

  1. Maintaining the confidentiality of your login credentials.
  2. All activity that occurs under your account.
  3. Ensuring any video, text, or other content you upload is appropriate, non-infringing, and reflective of your authentic self.

We reserve the right to remove any content or suspend accounts that:

  1. Disregard the H8M8 core philosophy (e.g., mocking users’ dislikes).
  2. Engage in harassment, manipulation, or deception.
  3. Promote hate, misinformation, or illegal activity.


6. Third Party Integration: SMS Verification via Twilio

As part of the account registration process, we use SMS messages to verify your phone number. These messages are sent through our third-party provider, Twilio. By registering for an account with your phone number, you consent to receiving SMS messages solely for authentication and security purposes (e.g., verification codes). Standard messaging rates may apply. Your phone number will only be used for this purpose and will be handled in accordance with our Privacy Policy.


7. Matching & Interactions

H8M8’s unique matching algorithm prioritizes mutual dislikes (H8s) and boundaries, not superficial interests.

You acknowledge:

  1. Matches are suggestions based on shared preferences and expressed values.
  2. H8M8 does not guarantee compatibility, outcomes, or safety.
  3. It’s your responsibility to vet your matches and engage respectfully.


8. Safety and Privacy

Your safety and privacy are core to our mission.

We offer:

  1. Thoughtful privacy mechanics and control over your data.
  2. Tools for reporting disrespectful behavior.


You agree not to:

  1. Share others’ information without consent.
  2. Record or distribute interactions without permission.
  3. Misuse features to shame or publicly embarrass users.


See our Privacy Policy for full details.


9. Intellectual Property

H8M8 and all content, logos, technology, and design elements are owned by H8M8 or its licensors. You may not copy, reverse-engineer, or redistribute our materials without permission.



10. Termination

We reserve the right to suspend or terminate your access for any violation of these Terms, including misuse of the platform or conduct inconsistent with the values of honesty, respect, and safety.


11. Disclaimers

H8M8 is provided "as is." We make no guarantees:

  1. That you will find a match.
  2. That all users are truthful or respectful.
  3. That the app will always be available or error-free.


Use of the platform is at your own discretion and risk.


12. Limitation of Liability

To the fullest extent permitted by law, H8M8 will not be liable for:

  1. Any direct, indirect, or incidental damages resulting from your use of the platform.
  2. User content or behavior on the platform.
  3. Unmet expectations in any connection or relationship.


13. Modifications

We may update these Terms from time to time. Continued use after changes indicates your acceptance. Major changes will be communicated via email or in-app notification.


14. Contact Us

For support, feedback, or to report abuse:

support@h8m8d8.com

By using H8M8, you are joining a movement of users who value honesty, boundaries, and respectful connection. This isn’t just dating—it’s being real from day one.

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